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rolo lamperouge ([personal profile] heartstopping) wrote in [community profile] expiationnet2024-02-23 02:01 pm

text / anonymous (before the last day of the party)

[Rolo's not generally bothered by what anyone thinks, but somehow this feels like an extremely embarrassing thing to have to ask, so he sticks with posting anonymously like he has been so far.]

How does one go about "forming bonds" with people on purpose?

[ don't laugh please he has literally only ever stumbled into this by accident ]
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[personal profile] heartofsalvation 2024-02-27 01:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Have we managed to confirm that's what has happened to people who have completed their rehabilitation? In many cases, I've heard people have just gotten new crimes assigned to them even if they had supposedly cleared the first one. Plus, some of those who have left may not have completed theirs; it's yet unclear why they're gone.

Not that it's a reason to trust unquestioningly in them, but I don't think they mean us genuine harm, at any rate. I'll be happy to eat my words later if things turn out otherwise, but for now, what can we do but wait and make inquiries?
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[personal profile] heartofsalvation 2024-02-27 01:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I can trust that they don't act out of malice, yes, but that they haven't considered the feelings of those they deal with is unsurprising to me. Gaolers typically do not give a thought for those they keep locked up, do they? Whether they are sent for rehabilitation or sent for execution, as it were.

I don't know what punishments they have in store for ignoring one's task, but I cannot imagine earning their favor will hurt in the future. That's the way I've been thinking of it, not that I feel they're completely guiltless in this. After all, I doubt anyone thinks of the Council as pure enough to be hanging out judgments the way they do.
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[personal profile] fieldtrip 2024-02-27 03:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay... so what is? Getting them to like you back?

[ spoken with the blithe incomprehension of a natural extrovert ]
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Text; Charm

[personal profile] conflictresolution 2024-02-27 04:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Loyalty. Forming bonds usually starts with a common goal or an exchange of currency for services that grows into loyalty to assist one another with overarching personal goal that they share.

Bonding can also occur over shared life experiences.
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[personal profile] izanagis 2024-02-27 09:09 pm (UTC)(link)
That's just what you do with friends, I think.

[... ... ...

Oh my god Jerry what a dick move--]


So this is tied to sentencing.
I refused to do it a few months ago. They retaliated by sealing my powers at a time when I really needed them.
entreats: (just a cage of rib bones)

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[personal profile] entreats 2024-02-27 09:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't bother.

It's often not worth it.
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[personal profile] laserguy 2024-02-27 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Still need more tips? Alright, because I'm feeling generous today.

Grab a sandwich together.
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[personal profile] coordinatroll 2024-02-27 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay~ Just give me a minute!

[ She disappears into the back of the shop for a moment, seemingly content with letting him remain at least semi-anonymous even now. There's no point in pushing his boundaries too much when he's clearly already out of his element, and even just from their short interaction so far, she figures it's best to take things slow. Just the fact he's come here is probably quite an accomplishment already!

A moment later she reappears, carrying a teapot and two cups in her hands. She sets them on the table before her guest, humming to herself, before running off again, only to return with a plate full of different kinds of cookies. Clients or guests, she prides herself on outstanding hospitality, no matter the circumstances. ]


Go ahead, help yourself!

[ She takes a sit across him, pouring them both tea. Might as well try and ease him into a conversation before moving on to the main subject. ]
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[personal profile] earnedmystripes 2024-02-28 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
[Kotetsu's always had a soft spot for kids, and Rolo in particular doesn't look very much older than his daughter. If he was at all apprehensive about the idea in the first place--which he wasn't very, frankly, considering the person was looking to learn about how to make friends--he certainly wasn't now.

Rolo doesn't wave back or shake his hand, but that's fine. He's perfectly willing to be enthusiastic enough for the both of them until the kid gets comfortable.]


They're pretty fun! I remember playing a lot of similar ones with my kid when she was little.

[Just casually slipping that in there. You can trust him, see. Look how super subtle he is. Wow.]
breakin_ur_lore: (I wish you lots of laughter)

[personal profile] breakin_ur_lore 2024-02-28 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
[ITS OK ROLO WE WILL GET THERE! BELIEVE IN MED'AN WHO BELIEVES IN YOU!

Actually, the words sort of remind Med'an of his mother. She'd had an incredibly rough childhood, raised by cultists and warmongers. He knows she's awkward around people now, and doesn't have a lot of friends. He wonders if she's ever realized that she didn't have any hobbies, either...

:(
]

Finding out what you like to do for fun is a good way to make friends. We can start with reading if you want. I've got books I can recommend.

Or maybe something physical, like a game or a sport? I like climbing trees.
[That totally counts as a sport, right...]
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[personal profile] heartofsalvation 2024-02-28 03:05 pm (UTC)(link)
That would make sense... If I may ask, what did they tell you of yours if you do not do as they ask?
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[personal profile] conflictresolution 2024-02-28 03:29 pm (UTC)(link)
What is it you believe in?

[Clearly someone was committed and needed to 'repent' for their misdeeds. What a pathetic punishment.]

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